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You're not looking for just any book. You want that exact dark romance adjacent feeling again. We compatibility-checked 12 books and found your matches.

by Ali Hazelwood

🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ 4/5 Dark Romance AdjacentIntenseSlow Burn

So Not in Love wrecked you. Welcome to the club. Whether it was the dark romance adjacent vibes, the enemies to lovers, or Ali Hazelwood's ability to make you forget you have a life outside these pages — we've been there. These aren't random "if you liked X" picks. Every book on this page was matched element by element against what made Not in Love hit different. Same energy, new stories.

YOUR MATCHES

12 Books Matched to Not in Love

Grouped by the elements that made Not in Love unforgettable.

More enemies energy

97%
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Bully
by Penelope Douglas
🌶️🌶️🌶️ 3/5 · 352p
Your TBR just found its soulmate.
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94%
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Punk 57
by Penelope Douglas
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ 4/5 · 376p
The book equivalent of finding someone who also cried at Not in Love.
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91%
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From Lukov with Love
by Mariana Zapata
🌶️🌶️ 2/5 · 516p
516 pages of exactly what you're craving right now.
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Your romance matches

89%
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Birthday Girl
by Penelope Douglas
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ 4/5 · 348p
Think of this as Not in Love's dating profile match — same interests, compatible chemistry.
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86%
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The Heart Principle
by Helen Hoang
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ 4/5 · 352p
The book that Not in Love fans keep recommending to each other at 2 AM.
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84%
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The Ballad of Never After
by Stephanie Garber
🌶️ 1/5 · 389p
Your TBR just found its soulmate.
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More angst energy

81%
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Normal People
by Sally Rooney
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ 4/5 · 273p · Literary Fiction, Contemporary Romance
You'll finish this and immediately text someone "READ THIS." We guarantee it.
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Your #1 Match — We'd swipe right for you

Based on mood alignment, spice compatibility, and trope DNA.

Bully by Penelope Douglas — 🌶️🌶️🌶️ 3/5 spice, 352 pages

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BEFORE YOU COMMIT

Quick answers before your next match

Based on mood, trope, and pacing analysis, the most similar books to Not in Love include Bully, Punk 57, From Lukov with Love. Each matches on specific elements like dark romance adjacent and intense that made Not in Love resonate with readers.

We recommend starting with Bully by Penelope Douglas — it shares Not in Love's core Dark Romance Adjacent energy while bringing something fresh to the table.

Not in Love is a standalone novel. You can jump right in without reading anything else first.

Not in Love has a spice level of 4/5. The recommendations on this page range across spice levels — each one is labeled so you can find your comfort zone.

Yes — several recommendations on this page have lower spice levels while keeping the same Dark Romance Adjacent energy. Look for the ❄️ or 🌶️ (1/5) tags.

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Every Sort By Cravings profile is written after a full read-through — not scraped from publisher blurbs. We cross-reference BookTok discussions, Goodreads reviews, and 500+ reader reactions before publishing any mood tag, spice rating, or compatibility note. Read our editorial standards.